Wednesday, August 12, 2015

SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP! IS IT ADVICIBLE OR NOT by - Emeka Aladu

Let's also check this issue of “if sex in a relationship is good or not”
From my own point of view,relationship in today's society is  one sided. Meanwhile,relationship was meant to be on a balance  where by d two lovers sacrifices foreach oda in all aspects of life including financially. Though in today's society,some ladies responds positively on the side of emotion. aspect while over 90% of them decline on the financial aspect.    
They only depend on their men for every thing and yet some still deprive and starve them of sex........
Abeg judge this case  impartially; your girlfriend asked 4 credit, she flashes u and u sent to her*.
*She want to make her hair nd paint her face,nd she asked 4 money and u give her*.
*on her birthday,u take her out and pay her bills.
*your own birthday u also take her out nd pay your bills and hers*.
Then ladies,what's ur own contribution in the relationship? This is a question every lady should ask herself in her relationship. Then after the guy has taken care of all the financial burdens alone on the relationship,you still go ahead to deny and starve him of sex which is the most emotional aspect in every relationship and also knowing fully well that men love sex a lot naturally that's why (men are polygamous in nature) and if he goes somewhere else to get it (sex) you say he is cheating. Haba! Ladies tis unfair o.......#Lol
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Yes to be frank, in a relationship, sex is not love and sometimes can be destructive, but I still strongly believe that SEX boosts the strength of a relationship.

Nevertheless,I can't forget to point out some of d disadvantages of sex in a relationship thes includes:
* unwanted pregnancy.
* transmission of diseases.
* I won't also forget the biblical condemnation of sex between  unmarried people, which stated it as a SIN against your own flesh and  GOD.....

Furthermore,I believe that due to most of these disadvantages, one needs to study more about SEX (sex education) which will  partially or totally separate u from the destructive part of sex before marriage/prevent one from being victim of circumstances of sex before marriage.
FOR THE LADIES (sum of the advantages of sex)
* it nourishes your body (skin)
* contribute in losing weight (exercise)
* it brings out the feminine curves......#Lol

Wot of psychological disadvantages of denying/ starving of sex?
*it leads to the formation of bad habits like  masturbation etc


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